Communication and Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias gradually diminish a person’s ability to communicate. Communication with a person with Alzheimer’s requires patience, understanding and good listening skills. The strategies below can help both you and the person with dementia understand each other better.

Additionally, the Idaho Commission on Aging website has Dementia Skills training that focuses on preparing and promoting communication and providing safe and comfortable care.  See

Changes in communication

Changes in the ability to communicate can vary and are based on the person and where he or she is in the disease process. Problems you can expect to see throughout the progression of the disease include:

  • Difficulty finding the right words
  • Using familiar words repeatedly
  • Describing familiar objects rather than calling them by name
  • Easily losing a train of thought
  • Difficulty organizing words logically
  • Reverting to speaking a native language
  • Speaking less often
  • Relying on gestures more than speaking

Communication in the early stage

In the early stage of Alzheimer’s disease, sometimes referred to as mild Alzheimer’s in a medical context, an individual is still able to participate in meaningful conversation and engage in social activities. However, he or she may repeat stories, feel overwhelmed by excessive stimulation, or have difficulty finding the right word. Tips for successful communication:

  • Don’t make assumptions about a person’s ability to communicate because of an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. The disease affects each person differently.
  • Don’t exclude the person with the disease from conversations.
  • Speak directly to the person rather than to his or her caregiver or companion.
  • Take time to listen to the person express his or her thoughts, feelings and needs.
  • Give the person time to respond. Don’t interrupt unless help is requested.
  • Ask what the person is still comfortable doing and what he or she may need help with.
  • Discuss which method of communication is most comfortable. This could include face-to-face conversation, email or phone calls.
  • It’s OK to laugh. Sometimes humor lightens the mood and makes communication easier.
  • Don’t pull away; your honesty, friendship and support are important to the person.

Communication in the middle stage

The middle stage of Alzheimer’s, sometimes referred to as moderate Alzheimer’s, is typically the longest and can last for many years. As the disease progresses, the person will have greater difficulty communicating and will require more direct care. Tips for successful communication:

  • Engage the person in one-on-one conversation in a quiet space that has minimal distractions.
  • Speak slowly and clearly.
  • Maintain eye contact. It shows you care about what he or she is saying.
  • Give the person plenty of time to respond so he or she can think about what to say.
  • Be patient and offer reassurance. It may encourage the person to explain his or her thoughts.
  • Ask one question at a time.
  • Ask yes or no questions. For example, “Would you like some coffee?” rather than “What would you like to drink?”
  • Avoid criticizing or correcting. Instead, listen and try to find the meaning in what the person says. Repeat what was said to clarify.
  • Avoid arguing. If the person says something you don’t agree with, let it be. 
  • Offer clear, step-by-step instructions for tasks. Lengthy requests may be overwhelming.
  • Give visual cues. Demonstrate a task to encourage participation.
  • Written notes can be helpful when spoken words seem confusing.

Communication in the late stage

The late stage of Alzheimer’s disease, sometimes referred to as severe Alzheimer’s, may last from several weeks to several years. As the disease advances, the person with Alzheimer’s may rely on nonverbal communication, such as facial expressions or vocal sounds. Around-the-clock care is usually required in this stage. Tips for successful communication:

  • Approach the person from the front and identify yourself.
  • Encourage nonverbal communication. If you don’t understand what the person is trying to say, ask him or her to point or gesture.
  • Use touch, sights, sounds, smells, and tastes as a form of communication with the person.
  • Consider the feelings behind words or sounds. Sometimes the emotions being expressed are more important than what’s being said.
  • Treat the person with dignity and respect. Avoid talking down to the person or as if he or she isn’t there.
  • It’s OK if you don’t know what to say; your presence and friendship are most important.

Please see Idaho Commission on Aging website for additional education and training, schedule of local events in our community and Area Agencies on Aging contact information.


Make the Holidays Merry For All…

How to Include an Aging Family Member in Holiday Celebrations

The holidays are meant to be a joyous time for families to gather and celebrate. However, these usually happy occasions can pose challenges for seniors and their family members.

Older adults with mobility issues or conditions like Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia can feel isolated when everyone is getting together for celebrations and family visits. The holidays can disrupt familiar routines and often require difficult travel, which can sometimes make an aging individual feel like a burden.

It is important to be able to recognize holiday depression in your aging loved one and make sure that they feel included in some capacity during this time of year. Use the following tips to help you and your family make the holidays joyous for everyone, regardless of their level of ability.

3 Ways to Make the Holidays Merry and Inclusive for Seniors

  • Create New Traditions
    If your family traditions involve travel or other activities that would now be too strenuous for your aging loved one, it’s a good idea to discuss the possibility of creating new traditions that everyone can participate in. Baking, easy decorating activities, holiday crafts, and having friends and neighbors drop in for small gatherings can be simple and effective ways to bring the holiday spirit to your aging loved one. These types of festivities are also great ways to involve grandchildren as well.
    If your family is somewhat scattered, perhaps it is time to change the direction of travel for holiday gatherings. Instead of aging parents flying or driving to visit their adult children and grandkids, consider bringing the family to them or even meeting halfway at a new destination.
    If your loved one lives in an assisted living community, check in with the staff to see if they are hosting any holiday activities. Even when family is nearby, many caregivers encourage elders who live in senior housing to participate in onsite activities to alleviate the stress involved in attending family gatherings. Leaving the familiarity of senior housing can be very disorienting for seniors who are living with progressing cognitive decline. Instead, arrange for family to visit or accompany your elder to the facility’s event(s) as part of your new holiday traditions together.
  • Remember Together
    Many times, it isn’t the holiday itself that causes feelings of depression, but rather that the holidays may bring memories of happier times. If this seems to be the case, activities such as watching home movies together or looking through old pictures as a group can be a nice way to remember those times as a family to help alleviate feelings of loneliness in an aging loved one. Reminiscing can be an enjoyable activity for everyone and a valuable way of sharing memories and family history with younger generations.
  • Plan Ahead
    If an elder lives far away, or if an in-person visit truly doesn’t seem possible this year, make sure you plan ahead to ensure they will not be spending the holidays alone. If your loved one is living on their own, try to see if one of their neighbors might be able to visit with them.
    This might also be the time to consider hiring in-home care, even if the arrangement is only temporary. If it seems as though your aging loved one will be alone this season, look for a reputable agency that provides professional caregivers who are specially trained to meet all of your aging loved one’s needs. Most agencies can accommodate either shorter visits or extended stays. The right caregiver will be able to assist with activities of daily living (ADLs) and provide companionship, activities, and emotional support.

Your local Area Agency on Aging (AAA) is also a great resource and may have a friendly calling or visiting service free of charge. Find your local Idaho AAA here:

Or use the Eldercare Locator for anywhere in the USA and territories.

Holiday traditions and activities can be adapted in countless ways, and flexibility can help ensure your plans are successful. Regardless of whether you are able to visit with the whole family or you must bring in professional caregivers to ensure your elders aren’t spending the holidays alone, the most important thing is for your loved ones to know that you are thinking of them and committed to helping them feel included in the festivities.

Renata Gelman, RN, B.S.N., is assistant director of clinical services at Partners in Care, an affiliate of the Visiting Nurse Service of New York

The ICOA website is Idaho’s source for reliable information on healthy aging and community resources:

Five Steps for Family Caregivers

Caring for a family member or a close friend is one of the most important roles you will ever play.  It may start by simply running errands, driving them to their doctor appointment or shopping.  Later, you may find yourself handling their medications, meals, finances, activities of daily living or other medical complexities. Therefore, it is important to know your loved one’s healthcare preferences with a plan in place before a crisis occurs.  Here are five important steps to help you through this caregiving journey.

Step One:  Start the conversation – “I just read an article about gathering all your important papers. Sometime can you show me where yours are and what you’d like us to do just in case?” Be open, express your love and concern, most importantly listen, and respect your loved one’s wishes regarding home, health, finances, and legal needs. Include other trusted family members to be a part of the process.

Step Two:  Form Your Team – Go deep and wide and decide who is in charge. Team members do not have to live nearby or have lots of time available to be useful.  Family or friends can work behind the scenes with meal planning/organizing, chores, bill paying, and assistive technology solutions.

Step Three:  Make a Plan – Keep the plan simple and include immediate and future needs. There are several roles’ people can help with; an assertive advocate to communicate with medical professionals or insurance companies; if your loved one wants to move, assign someone to research locations and facilities.  Someone else might offer to spend some weekends sorting through their personal belongings.

Step Four:  Find Support A variety of services are available to people aged 60 and over and their caregivers and older relative caregivers 55 or older.  This support can be found through your local area on aging.  The Idaho Commission on Aging website provides an array of Caregiver Skills videos sponsored by AARP’s Home Alone Alliance.  Additionally,

  • Hire Help – housekeeping, meal preparation, laundry, shopping, bathing
  • Secure Safety – Handrails, grab bars, night-lights, adjustable shower seats
  • Stay organized – Caregiving apps such as Caring Village and Medisafe

Step Five:  Care for yourself – Exercise, maintain a healthy diet, and sleep.  Overall, be sure to take time for activities you enjoy.

Resource:  (AARP, Family Caregiving Guide)

Visit the ICOA Website for Caregiver information

Contact your local Area Agency on Aging for programs and services

For free education on healthy caregiving topics visit the Idaho Commission on Aging’s Caregiving Education webpage.

Resident’s Rights: What to Expect

When a loved one no longer is able to remain at home safely with supports it pays to have some basic knowledge when faced with the task of finding appropriate placement.  Long-Term Care is a system unto itself with a language that most do not know if they have not had experience with either Skilled Nursing care or Assisted Livings facilities.

Take the time to explore options available for your loved one and take the time to personally visit facilities in the area that you would like your loved one to reside. 

When you visit your facility options observe:

  • The feeling  of entering into the facility
  • Smell or odors
  • Volume of music, laughter, staff communications, other sounds
  • Staff interactions with residents
  • A meal when possible


  • You greeted and welcomed by a staff
  • Conversations with administration focused on financial rather than on resident care.

And visit during the weekend to observe staffing and the facility environment

The big Question is– are staff “Resident Centered”?

Types of Long -Term Care-

Skilled nursing care requires a skilled medical need for services to be authorized for insurance coverage.  If the resident has Medicare it pays for the first 20 days and then the resident is required to private pay for the room and board for up to the next 100 days if there is no other payment source. For Medicare to cover, the individual must have a 3 day stay in the hospital.  Medicare will not cover if the individual was admitted to the hospital for observation rather than treatment.

When an individual does not have a medical need for placement and is in need of long-term care services that is beyond assisted living care, options for payment may be long term care insurance, private pay or Medicaid.

The person Centered Care Plan in skilled Nursing Care or long term care guides the care that an individual has been assessed to need for their best quality of life.

Assisted Living level care is not a skilled level of care.  According to Idaho Licensing and Certification “A Residential Assisted Living Facility is a facility or residence operated on either a profit or nonprofit basis for the purpose of providing necessary supervision, personal assistance, meals, and lodging to three or more adults”.

In an Assisted Living facility, the Negotiated Service Agreement guides the level of care required to meet the residents needs and increase or maintain their quality of life.

Residents and resident representative should have a voice in the development of these care plans.

Prior to signing an admission agreement—read the entire agreement and do not sign until you have read and understand what you are agreeing to.  At a later time should you have questions or concerns it may be dependent upon what was in the admission agreement as to what rights you may have going forward.  Keep a copy of the Admission Agreement that was signed upon admission.   

Nationally staffing is at critical levels due to shortages.  There has never been a more important time to be aware and involved in the long-term care of a loved one.

Know your rights.  Every facility is required to post residents rights.  When you have concerns or questions related to resident care contact your local Area Agency on Aging Long-Term Care Ombudsmen they are a great resource for information and resident advocacy.

Know who your advocates are and how to contact them- Ombudsmen are formally trained advocates that can help when family efforts aren’t enough.

Visit the ICOA website for additional information and services to help older Idahoan’s age with safety and dignity.

Preventing Falls

What a Difference a Few Simple Things Can Make

Every day, we look for ways to optimize our efforts. If we can find activities that accomplish multiple goals at once that is even better. This is especially true when it comes to things that benefit our health. For all of us, but especially those over age 60, a significant cause of accidental injuries and death each year are due to falling. Falls often result in expensive emergency department (ED) visits and hospitalizations. Older adults often end up in costly long-term care facilities. The financial cost can be overwhelming. Beyond the initial injuries, a person’s ability to actively engage in life, impacting their physical and emotional health, can be the result.  Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to prevent falls from happening to begin with?

Yes, there is good news! Most risk factors that increase the likelihood of falling can be minimized or eliminated. A few of the most common risk factors and some solutions include:

  • Trip hazards at home and work

Improve lighting, re-route cords across walking paths, remove clutter on the floor, remove or secure loos floor coverings, add non-slip mats to showers/tubs, fix uneven/loose steps and handrails.

  • Inappropriate and poorly fitting footwear

Wear shoes that fit well and provide proper support for activities. Loose-fitting shoes, untied laces or those that hang to the ground, and especially “open” shoes like flip-flops and open-back slip-ons can contribute to falling.

  • Lower body Strength

Don’t be a body builder but ensuring strength and flexibility in our back and legs can mean the difference between a stumble and a fall with injuries.

  • Medication

Many common over the counter and prescription medications can cause issues with balance, reaction time, dehydration, and other contributors to falls. Work with your healthcare team to reduce or change problematic meds.

  • Poor Vision

Wear glasses or contacts that correct your vision as much as possible. (Sometimes we can’t fully correct all vision issues.) In addition, be sure to remove reading and computer glasses, and look through the top part of bi-focals or remove them before walking.

Every one of these risk factors can be identified and most can be completely resolved at little or no cost. At the same time, we can reduce the very significant medical costs of fall-related injuries in Idaho which is more than $253 million each year ($50 billion nationally).

Throughout September, the Idaho Commission on Aging (ICOA) will be presenting free seminars about falls prevention.  Learn more about…

  • The full impact of falls on individuals, families, and Idaho communities in the Why Falls Matter seminar.
  • Performing home and office audits for trip hazards in the Identifying and removing Trip hazards at Home seminar.
  • Simple at-home exercises you can do by watching or following along as a physical therapist demonstrates them during the Simple Steps seminar.
  • Ensuring healthcare students and professionals include assessing fall risk as part of their practice by participating in the “brown bag” Falls Assessment As a Matter of Practice seminar.

View the entire Falls Prevention seminar schedule  and other falls prevention resources:

Isn’t it a good idea to take charge of ensuring we, our families, neighbors, and communities can reduce the incidence and impact of falls? Physical and emotional health, loneliness and isolation, financial stability, and the ability to continue to live independently in our communities of choice depend on it.  Together we can learn to reduce and eliminate falls.

Thank you for standing up for Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of happiness for Older Idahoans! Visit the ICOA website for additional information and services to help older Idahoan’s age with safety and dignity.

Emergency Preparedness for Older Adults

Follow these easy steps to make sure you’re protected.

Natural disasters, such as wildfires, floods, and blizzards, may force you to evacuate your home or shelter-in-place at short notice. It is important to know what to do in case of an emergency well before disaster strikes.

If you are an older adult living in the community, you may face some challenges during an emergency. For example, you may have mobility problems, or chronic health conditions, or you may not have any family or friends nearby to support you. Support services that are usually available, such as help from caregivers or in-home health care and meal delivery services, may be unavailable for a period of time. In addition, older adults may experience challenges that come with advanced age, such as hearing or vision problems or cognitive impairment, which may make it difficult to access, understand, and respond to emergency instructions.

You or the person you care for can be prepared for emergency situations by creating a plan, reviewing or practicing it regularly, and keeping an emergency supply kit.

Creating a Plan

The first step in preparing for an emergency is creating a plan. Work with your friends, family, and neighbors to develop a plan that will fit your needs.

  • Choose a contact person who will check on you during a disaster, and decide how you will communicate with each other (for instance, by telephone, knocking on doors). Consider speaking with your neighbors about developing a check-in system together.
  • Create a list of contact information for family members and friends. Leave a copy by your phone(s) and include one in your Emergency Supply Kit.
  • Plan how you will leave and where you will go during an evacuation. If you are living in a retirement or assisted living community, learn what procedures are in place in case of emergencies. Keep a copy of exit routes and meeting places in an easy-to-reach place.
  • Create a care plan and keep a copy in your Emergency Supply Kit. Try out the CDC’s easy-to-use care plan template.
  • If you have medical, transportation, or other access needs during an emergency, consider signing up for SMART911, Code Red, or your local county registry, depending upon which service your area uses to helps first responders identify people who may need assistance right away.

Creating an Emergency Supply Kit

After an emergency, you may not have access to clean water or electricity. Make sure you are prepared with your own supply of food, water, and other items to last for at least 72 hours.

  • Visit for a list of basic items to gather for your Disaster Supply Kit.
  • Medical-Related Items:
    • A 3-day supply of medicine, at a minimum. If medications need to be kept cold, have a cooler and ice packs available.
    • ID band (full name, contact number for family member/caregiver, and allergies)
    • Hearing aids and extra batteries
    • Glasses and/or contacts and contact solution
    • Medical supplies like syringes or extra batteries
    • Information about medical devices such as wheelchairs, walkers, and oxygen including model numbers and vender.
  • Documents (Keep physical copies in a waterproof bag and take photos of each document for backup):
    • Contact information for family members, doctors, pharmacies and/or caregivers
    • List of all medications, including the exact name of the medicine and the dosage, and contact information for pharmacy and doctor who prescribed medicine
    • List of allergies to food or medicines
    • Copies of medical insurance cards
    • Copies of a photo ID
    • Durable power of attorney and/or medical power of attorney documents, as appropriate.

Taking these steps will put you and/or your caregivers in a better position to deal with emergencies that may require you to evacuate or shelter in place.  Contact your local Area Agency on Aging for information on senior services and resources in your area.

Choice and Autonomy

We all Cherish Choice and Autonomy

Every July Americans come together and revel in our freedoms. The freedom to make choices and pursue our own path is celebrated as a fundamental right.

Unfortunately, as we age people lose sight of the fact that we retain our civil rights, and often take away choice and self-determination of older Americans in the name of safety or concern. This is commonly called ageism and is a subtle prejudice we must avoid personally and call out in others when we see it.

It is true that many older Americans need support as they age but this should be done via honest conversation with the elder using a respectful attitude as we explain their options. Yet even today well-intentioned relatives and caregivers are stripping away older and disabled Idahoan’s civil and legal rights, self-esteem, and quality of life by pursuing guardianship with the motivation to keep their older loved ones safe.

Although we applaud the motivation, the Idaho Commission on Aging advocates for older and disabled adults by urging concerned caregivers to consider the multitude of alternatives to guardianship for as long as possible.

What are alternatives to guardianship? Some examples include:

  • Representative payee
  • Durable powers of attorney
  • Health care surrogacy
  • Living wills
  • Trusts
  • Community advocacy systems
  • Joint checking accounts
  • Case management

Power of attorney – A power of attorney is a legal document. The document grants one person, generally called an agent, sometimes known as an attorney in fact, the authority to act on behalf of the person appointing them. The person appointing the agent is called the grantor. To create a power of attorney, an adult must be able to understand they are appointing the agent and understand the kinds of authority they are giving the agent. The scope of the agent’s authority is limited by the terms of the document and by state laws. A grantor with capacity can revoke or modify the appointment of an agent in a power of attorney. Revocation of a power of attorney should be in writing, signed by the grantor, with a copy delivered to the agent and anyone who is likely to be dealing with the agent. In some states, the revocation needs to be recorded in the public records like a deed. A power of attorney is a private agreement and is not subject to automatic oversight by the Courts.

Health care surrogate – A health care surrogate is a person who makes health care decisions for a person, when the person lacks capacity to make health care decisions. This person may also be called a health care agent or proxy. In every state, a person with capacity can appoint a health care surrogate in a durable power of attorney that incudes health care authority. Many states have a short form for naming a health care surrogate. A person has capacity to appoint a health care surrogate if they understand what a health care decision is and can name a person they trust to make health care decisions. If a person does not appoint someone, 45 state statutes give guidance on who can make health care decisions. Generally, statutes turn to the nearest relatives to make health care decisions. Health care decision-making is the only area of decision-making where the law creates a default agent when a person does not name an agent in writing.

The authority of a health care surrogate to make health care decisions does not start until the person loses capacity, or knowingly defers to the agent. The determination of loss of capacity is made by the person’s health care providers. The criteria and documentation for the loss of capacity is based on state law. The scope of the authority is defined in the document and by state law. If the person has capacity, the person can revoke or modify the appointment of a surrogate. Many states have a very low standard of capacity for revocation of an advance directive. Aside from leaving directions on who can make health care decisions, many people leave directions about the health care they want or do not want in the form of an advance directive or living will directive. When making health care decisions for another person, it is helpful to understand their health care values, goals of care, and specific wishes.

Social Security Representative Payee – A Social Security Representative Payee (rep payee) receives the benefits for a beneficiary who has been determined unable to manage money by the Social Security Administration (SSA). Rep payee is specific to Social Security benefits, including Social Security Disability and Supplemental Security Income (SSI). VA pensions and some private pensions have separate payee systems. Social Security will place the benefits in payee status if SSA has reason to believe that the beneficiary is unable to manage benefits. The evidence is either a verification from a physician who has seen the person recently, or evidence in a disability case of serious mental illness or substance abuse. The beneficiary can file voluntarily if they are unable to manage their benefits. The process is entirely administrative. Social Security does not recognize any other agents. Guardians and agents under powers of attorney must apply to Social Security to be recognized as a representative payee.

Someone seeking to be appointed as a rep payee should contact Social Security with the name and identifying information for the beneficiary, the reason the person needs a payee, and name and contact information of a physician who has recently seen the person and may include a proposed payee. Social Security then sends notice to the beneficiary, and a verification form to the physician. The beneficiary has a right to object to the need for a payee, or to the proposed payee. Upon finding of need for a rep payee, Social Security does a basic background check on the proposed payee. The payments must be directly deposited into a separate account, titled “payee as representative payee” for the benefit of the named beneficiary. Most payees file a very basic annual accounting. Representative Payee status can be terminated, at request of the beneficiary, with proof that the beneficiary has regained the ability to manage benefits. If the payee resigns or becomes unable to serve, benefits are held until a replacement payee can be appointed. There is a shortage of reliable volunteer payees and a need for representative payees. All payees are volunteers, with an exception for narrowly defined non-profits who are allowed to receive a limited fee from the benefits. In some states, inpatient residential settings, such as nursing homes, are allowed by state law or regulation to serve as representative payees.

Bank accounts – A common way to manage another person’s finances is to authorize an agent to sign on to that person’s bank accounts. There are two ways to do this: 1) add a person authorized to transact business on the account; or 2) make the bank account a joint account. A joint account creates a presumption of ownership in the account assets and may create inheritance rights. Joint accounts are very helpful for married or committed couples. For more distant family members or friends, joint accounts should be used with great caution. Rather than create a joint account, the bank can authorize someone to sign on the account without creating an ownership interest in the account.

This is commonly accomplished by the bank recognizing the authority granted under a power of attorney. In many states, the banks may insist on a state standard form, or a bank approved power of attorney form. Banks can also authorize signers on accounts without creating an ownership interest; many business accounts are structured this way. Direct deposit and automatic payment for All Social Security benefits and virtually all retirement benefits are paid by direct deposit. Direct deposit eliminates the need to make deposits and prevents lost or stolen checks. Nearly all reoccurring bills can be set up on automatic payment. The combination of direct deposit and automatic payments can help to assure that necessary bills are paid when a person is unable to attend to finances. These arrangements should be monitored to assure that all income is properly received, and automatic payments are correct. Increasingly, financial institutions and utility providers are willing to send copies of invoices and statements to a third party, or to arrange online access for accounts oversight.

This information was supported by a contract with the National Center on Law & Elder Rights, contract number HHSP233201650076A, from the U.S. Administration for Community Living, Department of Health and Human Services, Washington, D.C. 20201

Additional resources to help concerned family and caregivers support their older relatives without the civil death of full guardianship are:

A Guide to Managing Other’s Money

Supported decision making

A Guide from AARP

Thank you for standing up for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness for older Idahoans! Visit the ICOA website for additional information and services to help older Idahoan’s age with safety and dignity.

Elder Abuse Awareness

World Elder Abuse Awareness Day - Building Strong Support for Elders


Throughout the month of June, the Idaho Commission on Aging, our statewide partners, and communities around the world will be working to raise awareness about adult abuse, neglect, and financial exploitation.

World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD) was launched on June 15, 2006 by the International Network for the Prevention of Elder Abuse and the World Health Organization at the United Nations.

The purpose of WEAAD is to provide an opportunity for communities around the world to promote a better understanding of abuse and neglect of older people by raising awareness of the cultural, social, economic and demographic processes affecting elder abuse and neglect.

In addition, WEAAD is in support of the United Nations International Plan of Action acknowledging the significance of elder abuse as a public health and human rights issue. WEAAD serves as a call-to-action for society’s individuals, organizations, and communities to raise awareness about elder abuse, neglect, and exploitation.

How can you bring awareness?

This month promote elder abuse awareness within your networks and communities. Individual and community prevention efforts and supportive services help keep older adults safe and healthy, to help stop abuse before it happens. 

Access the following information and ideas to help you reach as many individuals as possible.

Share on social media- include one or two recommended hashtags on your posts

  • Sample Social Media Posts
    • Elder abuse is a matter of worldwide concern that demands a global multifaceted response. Take action and be part of the solution. #WEAAD #StopElderAbuse
    • Elder abuse is an injustice with many consequences for our society, affecting everything from our communities’ public health to our economic resources. Working together, we can build the social supports that can prevent elder abuse. #WEAAD
    • June 15th is World Elder Abuse Awareness Day. Older people throughout the United States lose an estimated $2.6 billion or more annually due to elder financial abuse and exploitation. Elder abuse also creates health care and legal costs for our society. However, we can change this. Learn more: #WEAAD
    • We all deserve to lead happy and healthy lives free from abuse as we age, yet older people are mistreated more often than we think. Take action to raise awareness toward prevention on this important social justice issue! https://eldermistreatment.usc. edu/weaad-home #WEAAD #Volunteer
  • Hashtags
    • #ElderAbuseAwarenessMonth
    • #WorldElderAbuseAwarenessDay
    • #WEAAD
    • #StopElderAbuse
    • #ElderAbuse
    • #FinancialAbuse
    • #EveryonesBusiness
    • #Volunteer

Wear purple clothing or a ribbon on June 15!

When someone asks you if purple has special meaning, start a conversation about elder abuse. It’s more common than you think, and rarely discussed socially.


Older Americans Month

Age My Way 2022

Older adults play vital, positive roles in our communities – as family members, friends, mentors, volunteers, civic leaders, members of the workforce, and more. Just as every person is unique, so too is how they age and how they choose to do it – and there is no “right” way. That’s why the theme for Older Americans Month (OAM) 2022 is Age My Way.

Every May, the Administration for Community Living (ACL) leads the celebration of OAM. This year’s theme focuses on how older adults can age in their communities, living independently for as long as possible and participating in ways they choose.

While Age My Way will look different for each person, here are common things everyone can consider:

  • Planning:Think about what you will need and want in the future, from home and community-based services to community activities that interest you.
  • Engagement: Remain involved and contribute to your community through work, volunteer, and/or civic participation opportunities.
  • Access: Make home improvements and modifications, use assistive technologies, and customize supports to help you better age in place.
  • Connection: Maintain social activities and relationships to combat social isolation and stay connected to your community.

Idaho includes a growing number of older Americans who contribute their strength, wisdom, and experience to our community.

Communities benefit when people of all ages, abilities, and backgrounds are welcomed, included, and supported.

The Idaho Commission on Aging (ICOA) recognizes our need to create a community that provides the services and supports older Americans need to thrive and live independently for as long as possible.

Idaho can work to build an even better community for our older residents by:

  • Planning programs that encourage independence.
  • Ensuring activities are responsive to individual needs and preferences.
  • Increasing access to services that support aging in place.

This year, the Idaho Commission on Aging is excited to celebrate OAM with our partners in the aging community. Visit the ICOA website for more information on aging resources to help.

Please visit the Michigan Health website for information on “Want to “age in place” someday? Take Action Now” and learn 4 key tips on how to successfully “age in place”.

Diverse communities are strong communities. Ensuring that older adults remain involved and included in our communities for as long as possible benefits everyone. Please join the Idaho Commission on Aging in strengthening our community.

For more information, visit the official OAM website, follow ACL on Twitter and Facebook, and join the conversation using #OlderAmericansMonth.

Boost Your Budget

Millions of older adults are likely eligible for, but not enrolled in, benefits that can help them save money on health care, prescriptions, food, and more. Public benefit programs, such as the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), Medicaid, Medicare Savings Programs, and Part D Low-Income Subsidy, help these individuals save thousands of dollars each year by helping with the costs of food, health care, and prescriptions.

However, barriers to enrollment in these programs, i.e., knowledge of programs and how to apply, affect many eligible individuals from not receiving benefits that they need. That is why every April, the National Council on Aging (NCOA), along with its partner network, promotes Boost Your Budget® Week, a targeted campaign that aims to educate older adults about enrolling in public and private benefits that can save them money.

During the weeklong campaign, the aging and disability service network partners work to educate low-income Medicare beneficiaries and their caregivers about benefits available to improve health outcomes and economic security. Those participating in promoting the campaign are also encouraged to connect older adults with online and community resources for benefits screening and application assistance.

What is Boost Your Budget® Week?

Boost Your Budget® Week takes place each year during the second full week of April. This year, the campaign will run from April 11-15, 2022.

What can the aging and disability network partners do to promote Boost Your Budget® Week?

For any community, state, or private organization wanting to promote and be a part of the campaign, some of the things that you can do include:

  • Share information about benefits as part of a food drive, health fair, or tax assistance event
  • Run ads in local newspapers or on social media
  • Invite media, legislators, and the public to tour your facility and learn about the importance of benefits for your community
  • Posting information about the campaign on your website
  • Educate your stakeholders (i.e., staff and clients) during meetings/presentations about Boost Your Budget® Week

What can YOU do to promote Boost Your Budget® Week?

Even if you do not work for an organization whose customers and clients are older adults, you can still do your part to spread the campaign message! Some activities that anyone can do to promote Boost Your Budget® Week can be:

  • Share resources from NCOA’s toolkit about the campaign on your social media
  • Let older adults in your family and social circle know about the campaign, and, if appropriate, let them know where they can find resources
  • Craft a press release and send it to your local newspaper about the campaign

For further information and resources needed to start planning your Boost Your Budget® Week events, please visit the official Boost Your Budget® Week website.

Your efforts can be life changing for low-income seniors or people living with disabilities. Visit the ICOA website to learn more about the MIPPA/MSP programs.

Senior Nutrition Program

Let’s celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Senior Nutrition Program!

According to Feeding America, one in six seniors are considered food insecure. This means about 57,000 seniors in Idaho may be dealing with the issue of food insecurity, which can create negative impact on their health.

In addition to causing a few extra wrinkles and unexpected aches and pains, getting older also impacts metabolism and the body’s ability to absorb nutrients. Because the way the body processes food changes as we age, nutrition becomes vitally important. For older adults, eating the right foods can not only improve health, but also protect against preventable diseases and even enhance quality of life. As with most health-related issues, the first step towards developing better nutrition is awareness.

‘Hippocrates, a famous Greek physician, stated in 440 BC “Let food be thy medicine and let thy medicine be food”. We have finally come to fruition with that fact, 2,383 years after his death.

Each March, the Administration for Community Living (ACL) leads the celebration of the Senior Nutrition Program and the Idaho Commission on Aging promotes its anniversary by celebrating the program’s rich history and tremendous value across the nation with Area Agencies on Aging and meal providers.

The purpose of the nutrition program is to:

  • (1) to reduce hunger, food insecurity, and malnutrition;
  • (2) to promote socialization of older individuals; and
  • (3) to promote the health and well-being by assisting such individuals to gain access to nutrition and other disease prevention and health promotion services to delay the onset of adverse health conditions resulting from poor nutritional health or sedentary behavior.

ACL funds senior nutrition services, including home-delivered and congregate meals. For more resources follow ACL on Facebook and Twitter and join the conversation via #SNP50.

Please join the Idaho Commission on Aging in spreading awareness about malnutrition and food insecurity and help to reduce hunger. Encourage the elders to consider attending a meal at least weekly for healthy benefits for mind and body!

For more information on Congregate Meal Sites and Home-Delivered Meals, please contact your local Area Agency on Aging.

Please join our free educational webinars on March 8th and on March 23rd. For additional nutrition information please visit the ICOA website and follow us on Twitter and Facebook.

See how the healthcare system benefits if seniors eat a nutritious meal at a congregate meal site.

Letters Lift Loneliness

A 2018 study reports that 22% of all adults in the US – nearly 60 million — said they often or always felt lonely or socially isolated (Kaiser Family Foundation) and 45% of seniors (65 and older) feel lonely on a regular basis (HRSA).

Along with the emotional response to feeling lonely comes many health risks that include increased risk of dementia, stroke, and coronary heart disease (CDC). There is no doubt we are a lonely bunch and alleviating loneliness is a public health concern. Over the past two years we have all become masters of zoom, and all things virtual. However, it may be time to set aside our phones, tablets, and computers for an old-fashioned way of alleviating the loneliness – the handwritten note.

Letter writing is tied to our hearts through our inherent drive for social bonds (Janine Ilsley, LMSW). In May of 2020 the United States Postal Service published research stating 65% of people agreed that receiving mail lifted their spirits, with just under 67% stating they have sent or would send mail to family or friends. Many studies have been conducted on the benefits of both the person composing the handwritten sentiments, as well as those receiving the letter.

Letter writing is tied to our hearts through our inherent drive for social bonds.  Studies prove letters bring us closer together.  The letter recipient will feel special and appreciate the thoughtful effort invested into physically writing, addressing, and mailing a letter.  This sends the message to the recipient that they are important to the sender (Janine Ilsley, LMSW).

When we think about an idea or concept, we can get stuck looking at it one way, but when we actually put pen to paper, a different part of our brain begins to examine the idea, opening new doors.  The repetitive nature of writing gives us the option to focus on what we are writing and the physicality of the act of writing, working on different aspects of our brain. (Erin Miers, Psy.D.). When reading books from the past we often hear of letters from past love saved in a box, or letters from family someone holds dear and rereads when they feel a need for comfort.  There is something about a handwritten note that touches our heart in a way lacking in today’s fast-paced world of electronic communication. 

So, pick up your favorite pen and share your heart with your grandma far away, or your neighbor down the street and always remember the words of Soraya Diase Coffelt, “Letter writing can be seen as a gift because someone has taken his/her time to write and think and express love.”

Write a Letter to Lift Loneliness! If you want to bring joy to someone you don’t even know consider writing a letter to a resident of a local nursing home or assisted living center.  Simply address the letter to “Any Resident”.  Staff will forward it to a resident that has few visitors or correspondence, and it is guaranteed it will make their day!

End Loneliness Campaign

The End Loneliness Campaign supports volunteers, professionals, elected officials, and concerned citizens to end loneliness in Idaho. This campaign is modeled after the End Loneliness UK campaign that has had decades of success in multiple countries around the world. Find the free “Let’s End Loneliness” training course on the Commission on Aging’s website.

Help is Close When You Need It

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s and other dementias can be a rewarding experience, it can also be demanding and challenging.  Caregivers for people with Alzheimer’s and other dementias are two and half times more likely than caregivers with other conditions to need help with emotional or mental challenges and nearly four time as likely to assist with behavioral issues (Alz Association, 2018). 

About one in three Alzheimer’s caregivers report their health has gotten worse due to care responsibilities, compared with one out of five caregivers or older adults (National Alliance for Caregiving, 2017).

Luckily help is available within the local area where the caregiver or the person with Dementia are living.

Caregivers usually do not know what they are seeking when calling an agency, so The Idaho Commission on Aging in partnership with six Area Agencies on Aging staff can aid caregivers to explore a spectrum of issues so the caregiving family can make informed decisions in their situation. There are 6 AAAs located throughout the state and each are experts on resources available in their communities.

Area Agencies on Aging (AAAs) are trusted sources of information and assistance, where older adults can turn to find specialized information, supports and service options in their area.  AAAs also play a crucial information and referral role, connecting families with local providers who can help them create a caregiving plan, address specific challenges, or identify support services.

In addition to Information and Assistance, each local AAA also offers support groups, Powerful Tools for Caregiver workshops, and respite.

The Commission on Aging’s website has free education and training resources found on the Idaho Commission for Aging’s website.  Further, the Idaho Chapter of Alzheimer’s offers “Know the 10 Signs” and “Understanding Alzheimer’s and Dementia” and many other webinars.  Look out the January schedule of educational webinars here.

Alzheimer’s Association. (2018) Alzheimer’s disease facts and figures. Alzheimer’s Dementia 2018;14(3).  Available at
National Alliance for Caregiving in Partnership with Alzheimer’s Association. Dementia caregiving in the U.S Bethesda, MD: National Alliance for Caregiving: 2017.

You Can Provide Comfort and Joy This Holiday Season

My favorite definition of loneliness comes from Britannica:   A distressing experience that occurs when a person’s social relationships are perceived by that person to be less in quantity, and especially in quality, than desired.

It is common when people think of loneliness to think of the emotional response to a situation.  We’ve all felt lonely at some point in our lives, often in a room full of people.  Sometimes we don’t even recognize it as loneliness, we just realize we are not connected to anyone around us.

But, did you know that loneliness is much more than an emotional state?  It is a health epidemic costing Medicare 6.7 billion dollars a year? (AARP)

Loneliness is equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day, being obese and having a sedentary lifestyle. (Julianne Holt-Lundstad) 

Nearly 40 percent of seniors feel some level of loneliness on a regular basis. (UCSF) and there is no doubt the holidays can be a difficult time for this generation stressed by the pressure of holiday expectations and the sadness of holiday memories.

What can we do to help those we care about?


That may seem simple, but when you have heard a story many times, make sure to listen again.  Especially about holiday memories.  If your loved one is hard of hearing or is developing dementia prepare ahead of time on how to best communicate.

Focus on the true meaning of the season

If they are no longer able to prepare the traditional holiday spread, or able to shop for gifts, make modifications. 

Simplify the meal

One month after my mother had major surgery my family went from a full holiday meal on Christmas afternoon to a simple morning brunch.  Each adult child arrived at my parent’s home with the food prepared and set it on the table immediately.  This made for a quick and easy meal that emphasized family time and created little work for any one person.  It has worked so well we’ve continued and made it our new tradition.  My parents still feel involved because it is in their home, but they do not have the pressure of preparing the meal. You can also leave them the leftovers!

Simplify the gift giving

Ask older people in your life to give you the gift of their memories.  In writing if they are able, or verbally, and you can record them.  Another idea is to let them know that spending time together is the greatest gift. This year I am giving my mother a few 300 large format piece puzzles (available on Amazon for less than $10.00) with a certificate for puzzle day. When she turns in a certificate my daughter and I will show up with a few snacks and visit while we complete the puzzle.

Holidays are unfortunately a trigger for loneliness; however, our goal is to ensure the older people in our lives feel noticed and included not only during the holiday season, but each and every day.

Join the campaign and visit the ICOA website “Stay Educated” page to increase your knowledge about loneliness by taking our six module course, browse the tools and resources, and reach out to your local Area Agency on Aging to get involved.

Idaho Celebrates Family Caregivers

Being a family caregiver isn’t uncommon, in fact, more than 53 million people provide a broad range of assistance to support the health, quality of life, and independence of someone close to them, but it is crucial. In fact, millions of older adults and people with disabilities would not be able to live in the community without that support and replacing it with paid services would cost an estimated $470 billion each year.

Providing support is rewarding, but it can be challenging when family caregivers do not have training or support, needed for the growing complexities of care, or opportunities for rest and protecting their own well-being. At the Idaho Commission on Aging, we believe that caring shouldn’t hurt.

The Idaho Commission on Aging’s core duty is planning a network of services that help older Idahoans to live safe, healthy, and self-directed lives in their communities of choice. One of the most important services is the Idaho Family Caregiver Support Program offering:

  • Information Services
  • Help accessing services and supports
  • Support groups, training, and counseling
  • Respite, or a short break from caring
  • Supplemental Services for individuals aged 60 years or older

This month ICOA encourages all Idahoans to recognize and thank family caregivers. If you are a family caregiver celebrate the important job you perform, but don’t forget to also prioritize the interests and passions that enrich your life and recognize the essential component of self-care.

Ten Caregiving tips for you and your family:

1. Seek support from other caregivers. You are not alone!

2. Take care of your own health so that you can be strong enough to take care of your loved one.

3. Accept offer of help and suggest specific things people can do to help you.

4. Learn how to communicate effectively with doctors.

5. Caregiving is hard work so take respite (rest) breaks often.

6. Watch out for signs of depression and don’t delay getting professional help.

7. Be open to new technologies that can help you care for your loved one.

8. Organize medical information so it’s up to date and easy to find.

9.  Make sure legal documents are in order.

10.  Give yourself credit for doing the best you can in one of the toughest jobs there is!

Visit the ICOA Website for Caregiver information

Contact your local Area Agency on Aging for programs and services

For free education on healthy caregiving topics visit the Idaho Commission on Aging’s Caregiving Education webpage.